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How To Control Anger?
How To Control Anger?
by
Joko
E S
Anger is one of the emotion form having the
character of healthy and fair. Though have the character of healthy and
fair, otherwise controlled correctly, anger will generate new problem,
like problem at work, family, and relation of interpersonal.
Why someone become to fulminate can be
differentiated to become two, that is:
1. External factors, is incoming factor from
outside, example: you become to fulminate because trapped to stuck or
delaying of air transport schedule and others.
2. Internal factors, is incoming factor from within
ownself, example: you become to fulminate because having cold feet,
doubt, experiencing of failure, owning hearting memory and others
You cannot eliminate or avoid cause of enragement,
and alter others not to make you fulminate. One matter which you can do
to control your anger. Several things which you can do:
1. Doing relaxation, relaxation make someone become
peace. Relaxation earn you do attractively breath in, doing light
movements (light athletics) to loosen muscles
2. Altering the way of approach, matter is
important, because angry people tend to release negative words,
therefore try to alter negative minds by rational approach.
Progressively you can think rational progressively easy to you control
anger in x'self
3. Finishing problem swiftly and is complete, this
matter relate to enragement because of incoming things from within
x'self like existence of the problem of which not yet been finished.
Faster you finish problem on the wane psychological burden and anger
you'd decrease.
4. Train the
way of communicating, in most cases people become to fulminate because
failure in communicating. Example: not make provision against
different idea, not ready to become hearer and accept criticism of
others. Things like this usually make angry people.
5. Altering environment, its meaning alter
settlement return workplace, altering rule of the game exist in
workplace (including altering your familiarizing) to avoid
inconvenience environment
6. Doing consultancy, when you unable to control
anger hence better do consultancy with psychology profession. Through
aid of psychology profession you'd be given tuition how to be correct
in controlling anger in order not to destroy other life aspect
Again, you will never can eliminate anger but you
can control anger, is not anger controlling you.
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